
How can one describe a typical day as a parent? Many (most) moments are nothing as you imagined when you were dreaming about what parenthood would look like. At least it is far, far from what I imagined. Maybe other people have the experiences we see on movies and in tv commercials. You know what I mean, long walks on the beach with the baby up on dad's shoulders with the child looking oh-so-cute in the perfectly knitted cable sweater (handmade, of course). Then there are lots of little glances back and forth between the mom and the dad as the baby coos happily while the sun sets.
Yes, yes, there are moments (teeny tiny fractions of moments) that look a little like that. I don't want to say there aren't. Our moments tend to be more colorful. I suppose this is to be expected as my son nears adolescence. And it is not to say that I don't enjoy it, because I do. For example, today Nick wanted to make a cake. (It is baking as I write next to fire. That is a lovely image, isn't it?) While he was cracking the eggs and measuring the ingredients he was singing his "new" song that he learned--We Are The Champions, by Queen. Remember that song? I hadn't expected to hear it again at this point. I think he might have learned it from watching ESPN with his dad, though I'm not sure. But what I am sure of, is that I will hear it a lot in the coming days as he tends to really enjoy singing new songs.
The photo I included today was one that I took last Halloween. Nick had received from his paternal grandmother a shirt that was handcrafted out of puff paint and halloween decals. (I believe she found it at a garage sale.) He thought it was a hoot and thought it would be great to pose in. I have a lot of pictures like this. My son loves being goofy. (Hmmm...funny, but his mom does too.) And although it wasn't exactly what I expected when I thought of having a child, it is more than I ever dreamed it would be. Yes, it is more challenging, but it is also a whole lot more fun.